Jesus Wept, and So Can I

When my husband was diagnosed with sarcoma cancer at age 28, I was confronted with a whirlwind of emotions. I was devastated, frustrated, confused, heartbroken, anxious, and terrified. The only cancer patients under 60 I knew were from stories, and they centered on being brave, positive, and happy despite hardships. And yet, here I was, sobbing in bed. I could barely make out my husband’s silhouette through the tears. I didn’t feel brave, positive, or happy.

Enter another emotion: guilt.

I concluded that I was doing it all wrong. I had this challenge, dramatic enough to describe in a news story or devotional, but my response was far from inspiring. Who would be inspired by this puddle of tears? Who would want to hear the story of the woman who screamed, “I hate cancer!” into her pillow without an ounce of grace or dignity? Why didn’t I respond with optimism and strength? Was I lacking faith?

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Ways to Find Meaning in Life - Cancer Today

“Whatever our beliefs about life and death may have been before diagnosis, cancer often moves us to contemplate how best to live and what our lives really mean,” Hester Hill Schnipper writes in her column. Read her tips for finding your spiritual footing:"

• Ways to Find Meaning in Life - Cancer Today

From Touro Infirmary's Supportive Cancer Center's website:

"Studies have shown spirituality is very important to the quality of life for some people with cancer. Although research has not supported claims that spirituality can cure cancer or any other disease, the psychological benefits of praying may include: 

• -  reduction of stress and anxiety associated with illness
• -  promotion of a more positive frame of mind
• -  strengthening of the will to live
• -  provide comfort during illness
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Many cancer patients rely on spiritual and/or religious beliefs and practices to help them cope with their disease—this is called “spiritual coping.” Spirituality can be a great source of strength, connection, hope, and meaning as you and your family look for ways to cope with cancer and its impact on your lives. "

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