Saturday, July 14, 2018

Survivor? Don't Call Me That

Words matter when you talk about cancer.


PUBLISHED July 13, 2018

Martha lives in Illinois and was diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer in January 2015. She has a husband and three children, ranging in age from 12 to 18, a dog and a lizard.
I stuck the "Survivor" ribbon for my nametag in my bag and thought about it for an hour. It wasn't the best way to start my experience at a huge oncology conference in Chicago held a little over a month ago.

While I can't get behind expressions like “lost her battle,” which are so often seen when we talk about cancer, and I seriously dislike the whole cancer "journey" baloney – I’m not "losing" to cancer and I am not on a trip that will lead to enlightenment. But the battlefield term that really makes me cringe is “survivor.”


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