Friday, November 30, 2018

The Gift of Forgetting

Wouldn't it be nice to forget a cancer diagnosis?
PUBLISHED NOVEMBER 29, 2018
Bonnie Annis is a breast cancer survivor, diagnosed in 2014 with stage 2b invasive ductal carcinoma with metastasis to the lymph nodes. She is an avid photographer, freelance writer/blogger, wife, mother and grandmother.
Sometimes I think I'm unrealistic and perhaps living in La La Land. It's been just a little over four years since I was diagnosed with breast cancer, and lately I've been feeling like I'm home free. My five-year cancerversary is just around the corner and reaching that magic number feels almost too good to be true. While I'd like to think I'll make it to my fifth year without a recurrence of cancer, I have to be realistic. The possibility of my cancer returning is very real.

My diagnosis was invasive ductal carcinoma, a very common form of breast cancer. According to my Oncotype DX score, the cancer was fed at a rate of 99 percent by both estrogen and progesterone. At the time of my initial surgery, it had already traveled outside my breast into my lymph nodes. That meant the breast surgeon had to do additional surgery to try to remove all of the cancer cells from my body.

Only once or twice since being diagnosed have I given thought to the possibility that cancer cells were roaming around in my body. Most recently this thought crossed my mind after taking a hard fall. When the radiologist seemed concerned about a dark shadow on my films and asked me to tell him about my cancer, I got nervous. It's been several weeks since that injury and I've begun to heal, so I feel I dodged a bullet. That shadow must have been something else.


Tip of the Day: Cook once but eat all week !

tipoftheday

Cook once but eat all week!


Prepare a large batch of favorite recipes on your day off (double or triple the recipe). Freeze in individual containers and use them throughout the week to save time.

bulb
Recipe ideas:
Having trouble viewing this email? View it as a Web page.
Bookmark and Share

Thursday, November 29, 2018

Thoughts on Forgiveness

Forgiveness is more than just words, it's feelings. Learning how to forgive others can help us in our cancer journey as well.


PUBLISHED November 28, 2018

Dana Stewart was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2010 at the age of 32. She is the co-founder of a cancer survivorship organization called The Dragonfly Angel Society. She volunteers as an advocate and mentor, focusing on young adults surviving cancer. She enjoys writing about life as a cancer survivor, as well as connecting survivors to the resources, inspirations and stories that have helped her continue to live her best life, available at www.dragonflyangelsociety.com.
I start by saying I am not sure forgiveness can be taught. Sure, you can tell someone you are sorry for something you did or said and hear them say back that they forgive you. Yes, the people in this scenario are actively trying to rectify the situation, but there is sometimes something missing in those words and actions: feeling. That, to me, is what cannot be taught within forgiveness. The feelings behind forgiveness are so much greater. You either feel the presence behind the words of saying “I am sorry” to someone (or even yourself, for that matter) or you don't.

So, how does forgiveness work itself into the cancer realm? Like with many other survivors, no one could pinpoint specifically why I got cancer. For the most part, I took care of myself. Was I perfect? Oh, how I wish. I ate my share of junk food, enjoyed a few alcoholic beverages now and then, and worked out, but wouldn't call myself rigorously active. I was also not a smoker. One of my favorite people in the entire world was a hardcore smoker and said undoubtedly that she would never quit. She didn't care what the situation was. Quitting was not an option to her. That pained me to no end because deep down, I knew where that decision would ultimately lead. And, after time, I was proven correct on that thought.

Tip of the Day: Set Up a 'salad bar' at home

Tip of the Day: November 29, 2018
tipoftheday

Set up ‘salad bar’ at home.


Set out small bowls of broccoli, shredded carrots, diced cucumbers, raisins, and more for kids to create their own masterpiece.

bulb

Wednesday, November 28, 2018

Cancer, Debt and the Holidays

Even living in a country with socialized medicine, cancer debt is an unfortunate side effect of treatment, making holiday shopping a challenge


PUBLISHED November 27, 2018

A native New Yorker, Shira Kallus Zwebner is a communications consultant and writer living with her husband and three children in Jerusalem, Israel. Diagnosed in 2017 with diffuse large B-cell lymphoma, she's fighting her cancer battle and blogging about the journey at hipstermomblog.com
Black Friday Sales this year came and went, and all I did to commemorate the biggest shopping event of the season was delete the masses of emails out of my inbox. Children’s Place and Target, Wayfair and TrueSelf Organics, sent their enticing messages to my inbox while my Facebook feed showed a steady stream of sales and specials at some of my favorite shops. No matter how many times I clicked to hide ads, a new sale from another store would pop up in its place. Even here in Israel, you can’t avoid Black Friday, as local merchants trying to peddle their wares adopted the biggest American commercial event to sell Hanukkah presents.
Lately, I just close off my radio and drive in silence.
When I started on my cancer journey a year ago, I was confident that living in a country with socialized medicine would mean not falling into cancer debt. That was pretty naïve thinking – or perhaps it was wishful thinking – that I would be able to do what seemingly no other cancer patient has managed to accomplish throughout difficult treatment: Keep up with my bills.

>

Weekly Update from the New Orleans Museum of Art


HOME     SHOP     DONATE     EXHIBITIONS                                  NOVEMBER 28, 2018
NOMA News
YOUR WEEKLY UPDATE ON ALL THINGS NOMA
Attributed to Guy Noel Aubry (French, 18th century), Philippe II, Duke of Orléans 1715-1723, (detail), Oil on canvas, Musée des Beaux Arts d'Orléans, Orléans, France, 842.3A, © Francois Lauginie
Historian will discuss the deportation of French "female undesirables" to New Orleans under the Regency of Philippe II
Historian Joan DeJean, author of eleven books on French literature, history, and material culture of the 17th and 18th centuries, will deliver a lecture titled "Champs-Elysées: Building Paris, Building New Orleans" in conjunction with The Orléans Collection. One component of the talk will focus on DeJean's recent research on the 96 "female undesirables" who were deported to New Orleans from France in 1719, with emphasis on the circumstances that would lead one father to have his daughter sent to Louisiana after having her falsely convicted as a prostitute. Read more about the lecture in an interview with Dr. DeJean.  
This holiday season, give the gift that truly keeps on giving
A NOMA membership provides your loved ones, friends, and business associates with the gift of culture year-round, with free access to NOMA's exhibitions and permanent collection, festivals, programs, and discounts toward purchases in the Museum Shop along with workshops, concerts, plays, and other special events. Purchase a gift membership and make holiday shopping as easy as the click of a button.
SPECIAL OFFER for new members: Join now and receive three extra months
Beginning now and continuing through January 27, 2019, throughout the run of The Orléans Collection exhibition, new NOMA members who purchase either an Individual or Dual/Family membership receive 15 months for the price of 12. Click here and apply code ORLEANS3 at checkout. Please call the membership department at 504.658.4130 if you have questions.
Dangerous Liaisons (1988) Official Trailer - Glenn Close, John Malkovich Movie HD
French Connections film series closes with Dangerous Liaisons
In conjunction with The Orléans Collection, NOMA is screening four movies set in 18th-century France. Watch the final film in the series, Dangerous Liaisons, on Saturday, December 2, at 2 pm. This Academy Award-winning historical drama from 1988 stars John Malkovich, Glenn Close, and Michelle Pfeiffer in a story of palace intrigue ---  jealousies, seduction, revenge, and power struggles ---    set within the pre-revolution court of Louis XVI. Watch the trailer above (Rated R | 2 hours).
REGISTER NOW: Public Orléans Collection Symposium in January
Renowned art historians from Europe and across the US will join scholars of 18th-century France at NOMA from January 11-12 to present a series of lectures related to The Orléans CollectionView the symposium schedule and register now for this enlightening weekend in the closing days of the exhibition: $100 nonmember | $75 member | $30 graduate student with ID.
Robert Indiana's iconic LOVE, Red Blue (1966-1997) is one of the sculptures on view in the Sydney and Walda Besthoff Sculpture Garden. Tours are offered on Saturdays and Mondays through December 15.
Join us for Small Talks, Noontime Talks, and daily tours

Small Talks are 10- to 15-minute discussions focused on a single object or small range of objects within the permanent collection or special exhibitions. This week's topics will include ancient Greek pottery and works on view in Lina Iris Viktor: A Haven. A Hell. A Dream DeferredView the full list of talks and tours.
Noontime Talks are casual conversations frequently scheduled throughout the year at noon between artists, curators, and other special guests with NOMA visitors. Curator Russell Lord will speak about Past Present Future: Building Photography at the New Orleans Museum of Art on Wednesday, November 28. Curator Vanessa Schmid will lead visitors through The Orléans Collectionon Wednesday, December 5.
Docent-guided tours of the permanent collection and special exhibitions are offered daily at 1 pm. Tours of the Besthoff Sculpture Garden are offered on Saturdays and Mondays at noon through December 15.
Baby ArtsPlay! engages youngest NOMA visitors

Instill a love of art at an early age through a guided, interactive experience with Baby ArtsPlay! Young Audiences Wolf Trap teaching artists will present a series of six workshops on Saturday mornings for children ages 0-3 and their caregivers. Parents, grandparents, guardians and their young ones are welcome to join the the second of six sessions of Baby ArtsPlay! on Saturday, December 1, at 10:30 am, which will focus on early language skills. Space is limited; register today at this linkFor more information, email: education@noma.org or call 504.658.4128.
StoryQuest bonds families around reading and art

Families bond around the act of reading children's literature at StoryQuest. A professional storyteller will read a book about family on Saturday, December 1, at 11 am. Ideal for children ages 2-7, no registration is required and the activity is free with museum admission.
Studio KIDS! engages students in hands-on art workshops

This fall Studio KIDS! presents "Express Yourself" workshops for children ages 5-10 who want to get creative and learn art-making techniques on select Saturday mornings from 10 am to noon. On December 8, kids will create decorative cards, and on December 15 students will model and sculpt a clay bowl. Register in advance | $25 NOMA members, $30 nonmembers.

Special Studio KIDS! Holiday Workshops will be held on Thursday, December 27, and Friday, December 28. Email education@noma.org to register: $25 NOMA members, $30 nonmembers.
Wellness Classes Among the Artworks 

NOMA, in collaboration with East Jefferson Wellness Center, offers wellness classes every Saturday morning and Monday evening.

Yoga in the Sculpture Garden: Saturday, December 1, 8 - 9 am

Tai Chi/Chi Kung in the Galleries: Monday, December 3, 6 - 7 pm

Classes are $5; FREE for NOMA members and East Jefferson Wellness Center members. To register, call East Jefferson Healthfinder at 504.456.5000.
In the weeks ahead at NOMA


Saturday, December 8, 2 pm: The West African Cinema Series returns with a screening of the 2017 movie Borders, a film that follows the travels of four women by bus through five countries where they face obstacles and threats to their lives and livelihoods.

Sunday, December 9, 3 pm: Artist Lina Iris Viktor will be joined by Renée Mussai, curator and head of archive at Autograph ABP in London, for a discussion about Viktor's work in A Haven. A Hell. A Dream Deferred. 

Sunday, December 9, 7 pm: "An Edible Feast" will include a private curator-led tour of The Orléans Collection followed by a champagne reception with pastry selections from New Orleans finest chefs. Susan Pinkard, author of A Revolution in Taste: The Rise of French Cuisine, 1650-1800, will deliver a lecture during the reception. $90 | $75 NOMA Members | View the menu of pastries and champagnes and purchase tickets
NOMA is committed to preserving, interpreting, and enriching its collections and renowned sculpture garden; offering innovative experiences for learning and interpretation; and uniting, inspiring, and engaging diverse communities and cultures.
 © 2018 New Orleans Museum of Art | visit noma.org



New Orleans Museum of Art, One Collins Diboll Circle, City Park, PO Box 19123, New Orleans, LA 70179
Sent by enews@noma.org